One good way to do this: check out the length of his texts versus the length of yours.If you scroll back and see that you're wordy and he responds with just one word, ask yourself: "Are my levels of interest even with his? When in doubt, use a 1:1 ratio—he should initiate half the time, and so should you.“In fact, it builds anticipation if you take your time responding.” The bottom line: live your life.Texting should occur only when it’s appropriate, convenient and/or fun."That’s sending the signal that you aren’t truly interested, and that you are a game-player.” (And read 6 Texts You Should Never Send Him.)Steinberg says she sees a certain pressure nowadays to respond to texts and emails instantly. That said, don’t think you owe a response in under 10 minutes—like data suggests many believe.“You have a full life and are not at this new person's beck and call,” Steinberg says.
If you're stuck in traffic, let him know you're running late.
However, a lot of people aren’t using online dating to their best benefit.
One of my recent female clients had only two pictures up, and both were professional shots. It suggests that this is the best she could possibly look, and, in fact, she might be much less attractive.
In the initial stages of dating, think of texting Whether you’re just doing it because it’s how you began (i.e.
online), or because you want to avoid saying difficult topics out loud, “nothing good comes from trying to discuss emotionally-charged issues through an electronic device,” says dating coach Neely Steinberg, author of Early on, you have to be careful.