While I think I look more attractive now than I did before, I don't think it is so much so that I should get advances from so much more men.I am just in a normal weight range so I am not off limits.Of course there are exceptions to this - there are men out there that are totally not ashamed to be attracted to and love a heavier woman.But socially, it is not really accepted among men so they hide it.
HOWEVER - I have been a size 14/XL and now I am a size 8-10/M and I get way more attention from men now. I don't think my face looks that different, and yes my slimmer figure is cuter, but its not like I have a "hot body" yet. So what my friends and I have concluded is simply - Men get sh*t for dating heavier women. Once you are not fat and you hang around younger men enough you will invariably hear jokes about drunken hookups with "fat chicks".He says that if i were to gain the 50llbs again, and be as confident as i am now, he would still be attracted to me. If you are confident and are comfortble with your body, others notice this and flock to you.Thursday, December 27, 2007, AM 6"20 SOme meat on their bones doesn't have to mean fat in general.At first i questioned his intentions because i recently lost 50 lbs.He never said anything to me before, only now did he finally decide to take a step forward.